Family Healing After Liver Cirrhosis

When my liver failed in 2010, I was pretty much toast. I had been for a long time without understanding why, or what was going on. See, my liver enzymes were in the normal range right up until my liver failed. I had hepatic encephalopathy, and yet was out cycling and jogging in the August heat. Liver failure is just what it sounds like. I hit the hospital door and didn’t come out right away. Instead, I ended up trying to say goodbye to my kids. If I was going to make it, there was some work do. Also, we found out that the whole family was going to need healing with my liver cirrhosis. 

Family Healing After Cirrhosis

You know me, I’ve always got a plan. We can’t leave anything to chance with liver disease. We also have to be deliberate about family healing after liver cirrhosis. I mapped out a plan to save my life, and my family. 

ihelpc.com Family healing after liver cirrhosis karen hoyt
I love this girl so much.

I Wanted More Time

Sure, I was fighting to live for myself, but honestly, I didn’t want to leave my kids without my support. Seeing the grands graduate, and then head off into their adult lives became a focus for me. Because I was constantly sick for the first 2 years while on treatment, but I kept up a false front. I was giving myself Procrit injections in the bathroom for anemia. The little one even helped me “push” the plunger during some interferon injections for Hep C. They called 911 and saved my life during an extreme varices bleed

I felt that if my family saw my journey, two things would happen. Number one, they would be less scared of my liver cirrhosis. Number two, they would be prepared for my death.

My daughter had the hardest time. She ended up being my personal caregiver. (messy parts) The pressure was hard on her. After finishing her master’s degree, she put her career on hold to help keep me propped up. We became so close during that time, but it also tested our relationship. Nobody wants to have, or to be, a full time caregiver. There wasn’t another person on earth who could have done it like she did.

A Regular Family

Now she’s got an amazing job. The grands are happy and still tender hearted with Nan. We almost got too close when I was sick. We piled up and slept together, went to movies, attended concerts, and I got to carpool kids to lessons and sporting events.

Now we’re almost a regular family. Not normal, because who wants that? I’ve got a young man’s liver tucked under my ribcage. There is nothing really normal about what we’re going through. But you know what? We are just a regular family who faced a lot of problems together and came out stronger and closer than ever.

This fall, I’m heading to Philadelphia to meet some of our hepatitisc.net friends from Health Union. But the week before Philly, my daughter and I are going to escape to New York City. We deserve this. She deserves it. After almost a decade of my Hep C and then recovering only to get liver cancer, we’re tired. We want a vacay. Just me and my only daughter. Family healing after liver cirrhosis is a part of our journey.

Mother and Daughter

We’ve rented an apartment on the upper east side and I’ve got tickets to some shows. She loves Jimmy Fallon and is so happy! We’re also going to Broadway, and Monet Exhibit and crossing the Brooklyn Bridge. We hope to drink coffee in a cafe where Bobby Dylan wrote songs. I want to go to Alexander Hamilton’s grave too. Then we’re going to stay with friends in Brooklyn. I packed a lot in to honor my daughter who helped save my life.

It’s like heaven is smiling down. We’re all right. We made it through. Everything is going to be fine. It’s been a rough haul. We’re tough women. We’re going to New York City to celebrate life.

I hope you and your family are healing after cirrhosis. It takes a plan and deliberate action, but everyone can grow in the process. If you need help navigating your family ups and downs, let me know. I’d love to share what helped us grow stronger.

Celebrate your life, dear friends. xoxo Karen

 

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6 thoughts on “Family Healing After Liver Cirrhosis”

    1. Thanks sweet love,

      We’re getting excited. I just got an email that we have a studio audience seat to see GMA being taped! We’re super happy about that.
      I’ll keep you posted. xoxo Karen

  1. Hi,

    Kind of scary to know the blood work that shows I look good can be not true. I live in so much pain in my liver. I can’t eat much within 30 min I am in pain. It is a wait and wait some more until it will hit me and change my life forever. Thanks for the updates

    1. The pain is so scary and I hope you watched my youtube about it. I believe that eating right, and then relaxing and saying good things to my liver helped me to decrease the pain.
      Please let me know what helps you. Living in fear is crippling and I’m so so sorry we’ve all had to go through this. Please keep your hope alive dear friend.
      xoxo Karen

  2. I am so happy for your trip! Say hello to NYC my home I miss so much…I will look for you on GMA, also enjoy the Brooklyn Bridge. I walked it many times as I grew up and lived in Brooklyn most of my life…Cant wait to see the pics!

    1. Eileen,

      It was a wonderful trip. We stayed uptown east by the park and then with my friends in Brooklyn. Both were just delightful. I wonder if we showed up on any of the episodes. Seeing Micheal, Sara, and Keke behind the scenes was so exciting. We were on a hyper buzz the whole time we were there with Jimmy Fallon coming on and making everything so funny.
      I just love the city. It’s easy to get around in and always something interesting to do and see. I hope you get to go back soon and visit. It’s worth saving up for, I promise.

      Much love my friend and I hope you are getting stronger every day!
      xoKaren

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